All good things…need a 2.0!
It’s August, it’s hot and I can’t take this heat. Time for a re-boot.
Re-boot in this case means a few things have changed at TBC. As of 7/31, the doors have closed and I’ve moved online, ready to serve more of you in a more convenient way.
I’m also taking a short break while I continue to get everything ready, so for this month, I want to reprise an article about laughter. With this heat, it may be hard to find something to laugh at but I’m doing my best to bring more belly laughs into my day to get through it all.
Some Ideas On Why We Need To Laugh More Often
Take a moment and think-when’s the last time you had a good laugh? Take your time. If you find it hard to remember, listen up.
I know it might sound cliché, but laughter really is great medicine to feed your soul and keep you on track.
Why? Laughter, whether it’s easy or deep in your belly, serves a great purpose. It immediately encourages a distance between a situation and your reaction to it. When you have that emotional distance, there’s less attention on you and the situation, so you might be able to see it and yourself a lot more clearly. It helps you gain perspective which in turn might allow you to come up with better ideas on how to handle a situation.
Besides reducing your stress hormones, what else does laughter do? It:
- Stimulates your immune system (think Norman Cousins and Patch Adams)
- Relaxes your muscles
- Lowers your blood pressure
- increases social bonding, keeping your relationships fresh and making them stronger
With all these great benefits, why aren’t more people laughing? Well, they may not know about the benefits. Also, the challenge is remembering to do it regularly. You have to make laughter important and create space for it. Another thing, even if you don’t laugh, according to Dr. Sonya Lyubormirsky, just the “expectation of laughter can increase beta-endorphins and human growth hormones’.
So, what can you do to laugh more? I’ve got a few ideas. Do what Norman Cousins did. He watched funny movies. I totally agree with his statement that
“laughter serves as a bulletproof vest that protects you against the ravages of negative thinking”.
The spontaneous laughter you have when you watch funny movies can help you disconnect from your troubles.
If you teach or offer any kind of training, add levity to what you’re sharing. It not only benefits you but helps those attending gain a deeper, better grasp of the new information.
If you have small kids, release your inner child and join them playing on the swings (although it’s kinda hot now, so maybe find an inside place with a playset)
At family dinner or any time your family regularly gets together, create a new ritual of everyone sharing something funny or telling a new joke.
I love just about anything by Loretta LaRoche, for example: Life is Short, Wear Your Party Pants or Life is Not a Stress Rehearsal. I get them free at my local library.
My challenge to you this month is, everyday, make sure you get in at least 10 good belly laughs. Even if you have to put it on your schedule, make it important, and do it. And since laughter is contagious, you might create your own flashmob, make new friends, and just have a darn good time.
As always, I love empowering women to live happier, healthier lives. Whether you call it depression, anxiety, stress, or nerves, I’d like to help. I invite you to call me at 512.680.2874 for your free 15-minute phone consultation. Let’s discuss how I may be able to help.
Looking forward to hearing your story and helping you feel better,